{"id":1678,"date":"2021-11-11T14:53:08","date_gmt":"2021-11-11T13:53:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylampblog.com\/?p=1678"},"modified":"2021-11-11T14:56:29","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T13:56:29","slug":"dealing-with-disappointment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/es\/dealing-with-disappointment\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with disappointment"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Recently, I made a disappointing experience. I imagined a specific event taking place in my life hoping that it was God\u2019s will for me. But it didn\u2019t happen.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, dealing with disappointment is part of life. I guess you know what I\u2019m talking about. Your expectations concerning a relationship, friendship, or job weren\u2019t met far too often. It hurts and it takes a lot of courage to hope again.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While reflecting upon what was happening the conclusion seemed obvious: God withheld something good from me and didn\u2019t want me to experience blessing. (Which was a lie, of course)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In God\u2019s presence, I laid down my thoughts and feelings. I asked him to turn this situation around and use it for something good. I wanted God to somehow use my disappointment for his glory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Time went by and I noticed God changing my attitude concerning that disappointment. Here are a few insights I got during that process:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1.No one can take away what God has for me.<\/strong> If it was God\u2019s will for me, he would have brought it into my life. Since it didn\u2019t happen, it wasn\u2019t according to God\u2019s will for me or it just wasn\u2019t his timing. In the end, it\u2019s about what God wants to do in my life. Anyhow, I can take faith in the fact that his intentions for me are good. I wrote an entire blog post about God\u2019s intentions for us. Read it <a href=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/gods-intentions-for-your-life\/\">HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. <\/em>Jeremiah 29:11<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2.Renewal of the heart.<\/strong> During that inner process, I realized that I wanted this thing too much. I had to learn once again, to surrender my desires to God. I prayed that he would use this situation to cleanse my heart and refocus it on him and his will for my life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God\u2019s will is\u2014his good, pleasing and perfect will. <\/em>Romans 12:2<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3.Focus on eternity. <\/strong>We know that our time here on earth is limited. However, we get caught up in the minutiae of everyday life. I had to adjust my perspective to God\u2019s bigger picture and see the short span of my life through his eyes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. <\/em>Romans 8:18<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4.Being grateful for what I already have.<\/strong> When we set our minds on what we long for, we neglect to count our blessings. I recalled all the good things God has already done in my life. Pondering upon my blessings created in me a thankful heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I will give thanks to you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds. <\/em>Psalm 9:1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5.Sharing testimonies is encouraging. But talking about disappointments can comfort others.<\/strong> If others know about our difficulties and disappointments, they don\u2019t find themselves alone in their struggles. In a world of social media\u2019s highlight reels, this situation is an opportunity to open up about our imperfect lives, so others get comforted.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. <\/em>1. Thessalonians 5:11<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those insights brought me to the conclusion that with Jesus I can only win. I would have rejoiced if God brought that specific thing into my life, which would have been a real blessing. But since it didn\u2019t happen, I still won a lot. My heart\u2019s focus got adjusted and my eyes were directed towards what\u2019s most important. I look towards eternity in anticipation of what lies ahead while cultivating a grateful heart looking at what I\u2019ve already got. Dealing with that disappointment brought me closer to the heart of Jesus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Read more blog posts:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/how-to-share-the-gospel-despite-rejection\/\">How to share the gospel despite rejection<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/god-is-not-always-speaking\/\">God is not always speaking<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/my-god-why-have-you-forsaken-me\/\">My God why have you forsaken me<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2b50\ufe0f Do you want to know how to study the Bible for yourself? Get my free 19-page-long <a href=\"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/05f2101443bf\/bible-study-a-basics-guide\">Bible Study Basics Guide<\/a> by subscribing to my newsletter down below.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2b50\ufe0f Follow me on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mylampblog\/\">Instagram<\/a> for more encouragement\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n<strong>Share This:<\/strong><br><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-follow synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-twitter nolightbox\" data-provider=\"twitter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Follow us on Twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/mylampblog\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:20px;margin-right:20px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"twitter\" title=\"Follow us on Twitter\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-follow\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/addons\/extra-icons\/image\/social\/clearslate\/64x64\/twitter.png\" \/><\/a><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-follow synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-pinterest nolightbox\" data-provider=\"pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Our board on Pinterest\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/mylampblog\/\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:20px;margin-right:20px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"pinterest\" title=\"Our board on Pinterest\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-follow\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/addons\/extra-icons\/image\/social\/clearslate\/64x64\/pinterest.png\" \/><\/a><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-follow synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-instagram nolightbox\" data-provider=\"instagram\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Check out our instagram feed\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mylampblog\/\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:20px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"instagram\" title=\"Check out our instagram feed\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-follow\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/addons\/extra-icons\/image\/social\/clearslate\/64x64\/instagram.png\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I made a disappointing experience. I imagined a specific event taking place in my life hoping that it was God\u2019s will for me. But it didn\u2019t happen.\u00a0 Unfortunately, dealing with disappointment is part of life. I guess you know what I\u2019m talking about. Your expectations concerning a relationship, friendship, or job weren\u2019t met far [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1680,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"translation":{"provider":"WPGlobus","version":"3.0.0","language":"es","enabled_languages":["en","es","de"],"languages":{"en":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false},"es":{"title":false,"content":false,"excerpt":false},"de":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false}}},"aioseo_notices":[],"featured_image_urls_v2":{"full":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1.jpg",1280,960,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1-300x225.jpg",300,225,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1-768x576.jpg",580,435,true],"large":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1-1024x768.jpg",580,435,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1.jpg",1280,960,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1.jpg",1280,960,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1-1200x900.jpg",1200,900,true],"twentytwenty-fullscreen":["https:\/\/mylampblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Dealing-with-disappointment-1.jpg",1280,960,false]},"post_excerpt_stackable_v2":"<p>Recently, I made a disappointing experience. I imagined a specific event taking place in my life hoping that it was God\u2019s will for me. But it didn\u2019t happen.\u00a0 Unfortunately, dealing with disappointment is part of life. I guess you know what I\u2019m talking about. Your expectations concerning a relationship, friendship, or job weren\u2019t met far too often. It hurts and it takes a lot of courage to hope again.&nbsp; While reflecting upon what was happening the conclusion seemed obvious: God withheld something good from me and didn\u2019t want me to experience blessing. 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